Thursday, April 30, 2015

Funnies

Little Brother: (Hands me a ball of play dough) Pit! (Pig)
Me: Oh, it's a pig?
Little Brother: Uh huh.  (He then jabs one end of it.)  Butt!

Ah, any mother's dream gift.

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Hubster: Hey, would you like to move to a new house?
Kiddo:  Yeah!  New house!  House dirty.

Thanks Kiddo.  So encouraging.  Don't think it's a good reason to move though...


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Me: I love you.
Little Brother: I know!
Me: You're cute.
Little Brother: I know!

This is now his response every time you tell him you love him.



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Hubster: Hey, your birthday is coming up.
Me: Yeah, you'll be five.  And you know what we'll do on your birthday?
Kiddo: Yeah.  Chuck E Cheese!

Not what I had in mind, but looks like I'll be planning a Chuck E Cheese b-day celebration.

Monday, April 27, 2015

Stupid Articulation

Kiddo came up to me while I was loading the dishwasher and demanded "Eat beer."

At least, that's what it sounded like.  So I asked him "Eat peanut butter?"  He shook his head and repeated "Eat beer."

After running through a few options of what "beer" could be I then resorted to our usual, "Show me."  And he might need some prompting, but usually he'd point at the fridge or the cabinet or the pantry or whereever it was the item he wanted was.

But instead, tears formed in his eyes, and he simply repeated "Eat beer."  He then indicated he wanted me to pick him up, so I did, thinking he'd show me what he wanted.  Instead he yelled really loudly in my ear "Eat beer!"

"I heard you!" I yelled, putting him back on the floor.  "But I don't know what it is you want!  Show me what you want!!"

Tears again, and instead of feeling guilty, instead of praying for patience, I simply turned and continued loading the dishwasher.  I was mad.

But then, I realized the anger wasn't at poor Kiddo who wanted something that sounds to me like beer.  I'm mad that it can take 10 minutes to figure out what my child wants and sometimes I can't figure it out.  How is it that other kids his age can communicate entire stories and mine can't one simple word?

I still don't know what "beer" is.  But Kiddo is happily munching on popcorn while watching a movie, snuggling against me while I write this.

I'm glad he doesn't hold it against me.  Hopefully I will figure out what "beer" is.  And I will work my hardest to get this precious child talking clearer.  I want to not only hear those sweet apples of gold, I want them to be crisp, clear, delicious for all those who hear it.  I want to know what it is my child thinks about, what it is he wants to do and eat without tears.  His or mine.


Update July 2015.  I have learned that "beer" is his way of saying Cheerios.  We'll be working on this word for a while I think.

Friday, April 17, 2015

Progress Report

Whew, it's been a while since I did one of these, so I'll try and remember the inchstones and new words and phrases since the last progress report.

Kiddo:

Social: We spent an amazing two weeks with family and Kiddo seemed to blossom socially from all his fun playing with his eight cousins and other relatives. The weird thing is, we didn't see it as much while we were there, but we do now.  He is now calling his friends by name, and when he sees pictures of his cousins will call them by name.  He also now calls Little Brother by his name, rather than "Baby" as he has for the past several years.  He is starting to respond to peers too, when they talk to him.  Before he seemed oblivous to them talking to him, so huge progress there.

Kiddo with his cousins--all born in 2010. :)

Gross Motor: It's taken me three years to find a good pediatric physical therapist, but FINALLY, I found one, a good 45 minutes away, and she is truly AMAZING.  Within one session she had taught Kiddo how to get up on tiptoes, and within two sessions, Kiddo was alternating his feet on stairs.  The two weeks we were visiting family, he had lots of practice alternating feet on stairs, as we were on the third floor of a hotel.  We encouraged the alternating of feet by prompting him with "One-two-one two! (without the prompting he doesn't alternate his feet).  He's doing so much better on stairs, and next time we're around a staircase I'll get a video.

Fine Motor: He is still not holding writing utensils properly, but is now coloring items on a coloring page rather than just scribbling all over it. Sometimes he picks really random things to color, like at church this Sunday they were to color a picture of Jesus walking with his disciples, and Kiddo only colored the plant and the sun.  But still, he's coloring, rather than just scribbling, which is awesome.

Speech: Wow, this kid has so much stuff to say now.  I wish I could even remember it all, but life is so busy I don't even have time to write down the conversations we have.  Yes, conversations!

Biggest articulation improvement is he is now including more final consonant sounds.  Words that end in p and t sometimes d he's including those ending sounds.  He's also getting better at changing consonant sounds, rather than repeating them.  Example: potty used to be poppy but now has the d sound in the middle, whoo hoo!  However, he's had so much practice switching consonant sounds that he's doing it in words where they stay the same.  Example, I'm now "Moppy!"  And yes, always with an exclamation point.  I can't wait to be Mommy again, regardless of whether it has an exclamation point or not.

Biggest speech/communication improvement is he is now using verbs.  They usually have to do with what Little Brother is doing, as Kiddo thinks it's his job to report on Little Brother's activities.  Some examples include:

Little Brother's name + ______
Throw toys.
Close door.
Loud noise.  (aka, Little Brother is screaming)
Cry.
Sleep.


Some conversations (though these are not his pronunciations, just what he's trying to say)

Me: Look, it's a roly poly!  If you touch it it will roll up into a ball, because it's scared.
Kiddo: Yeah.  Wake up bug!
Me: It'll wake up when it's not scared anymore.
Kiddo: Eat leaves?
Me: Yes, I think it eats leaves and grass.
Kiddo: Bee eat honey.
Me: Yes, they eat nectar from flowers to make honey.
Kiddo: Butterfly eat flower.
Me: Oh, yeah, they eat the nectar from flowers.  Like bees.
Kiddo:  Yeah.  Bug wake up!  Eat leaves!

Me: Time to pray.
Kiddo: No pray!
Me: Yes, we always pray before bed.
Kiddo: Mommy, Daddy, (Kiddo's Name), (Brother's name), Jesus!
(those are the things he always thanks God for, but usually in fill in the blank format: "Thank you God for ____."  Way to rush the praying there, Kiddo.)

Kiddo: (spotting the toddler bed we had bought for Little Brother)  Big boy bed!
Me: Yes.  It's a big boy bed for Little Brother, just like you have.
Kiddo: Yeah.  Big boy.  Little Brother--little boy.
Me: Oh.  Yeah, Little Brother is a little boy and you're a big boy.
Kiddo: Yeah.  Daddy big big boy.

Hubster: I've gotta go to work, to fix the robots.  (He works with computers, but always talks to Kiddo about his work using robot references, since Kiddo is so into robots).
Kiddo: Robots sick?
Hubster: Well, they fell down. I have to help them up, make them feel better.
Kiddo: Robots get up!
Hubster: I'll help them up.  It might take them awhile.
Kiddo: Ok.
(Later, when Hubster returns)
Kiddo: Robots up?
Hubster: Nope, they're still down.  But I'm helping them up.
Kiddo: Ok.  No robots down.


Little Brother:


Behavior: Little Brother has some hyperactivity/impulsive issues that Kiddo's OT was noticing and recommended we get him evaluated for sensory processing disorder.  He also is terrified of water, and whether it's fear or sensory related, we do not know, but we're getting him evaluated in a few weeks by Kiddo's OT.  I've started using Peace and Calming essential oil on him and it does seem to be calming him down.  He has less temper tantrums and is hitting and throwing toys less.  He's much more enjoyable to be around lately. :)

Speech: I got Little Brother formally evaluated by Kiddo's private speech therapist.  She admits that apraxia is a possibility but it's too early to tell yet.  She diagnosed him with "severe expressive delay, mild receptive delay, and moderate articulation delay."  His behavior made it rough for her to finish the evaluation so we agreed that private therapy is not a good idea for now, until we get his behavior issues figured out.  So we'll continue the twice a month speech with Ms. Blessing in our home through Early Intervention, which he'll get until he turns three (in August).

I attended Little Brother's transition meeting yesterday.  He will receive speech therapy services through the school like Kiddo, when he turns three.  Now I have two kiddos with IEPs, fun times, but whatever we have to do to help them, we will do. :)

Little Brother's speech seems to be totally taking off lately.  He repeats a lot of two to three word phrases we say.  Sometimes they sound clear, sometimes, not so much.

New words and phrases:
apple
grapes
I know
bubble
It's a _____
One-two-one two  (this is how he counts after our stairs experience with Kiddo.  Even if I say One he'll say one, I'll say two, he'll say two, I'll say three, he'll say one, I'll repeat three, he'll say two, etc.  Gotta work on this)
color
Me! (when he sees himself in the mirror)
moon (which is for both the sun and the moon in books)

Academic skills: He can identify body parts, lots of animals and their sounds, and several shapes (circle, triangle, star, square and rectangle).  Naming colors is either a concept he doesn't grasp or doesn't care about, though his favorite color is definitely red.  (Any time he colors, he always starts with red, and sometimes will only color with red.)  Counting is also something we're working on, so far he only counts to two.  Puzzles though, he's a champ at.  This kid loves puzzles, and sometimes can sit for twenty minutes, doing the same puzzle over and over again.

Sunday, April 12, 2015

Essential Oils for Special Needs

Essential oils are the oils extracted from plant parts (flowers, bark, leaves, etc) used for aromatic or even medical purposes.  Each oil has different benefits, and there are so many testimonies of people experiencing healing using particular essential oils that I just had to give it a try.

Read the rest of the post here at www.embracing.life.

Monday, April 6, 2015

Plans for Summer 2015

Within the same week, I learned that Kiddo had been accepted to both Nancy Kaufman's summer SPEAK program, and to a three day mini speech intensive with Jodi Kumar at George Washington University.  We've experienced progress at both places, and I really really wanted to go back to see Nancy Kaufman.  Her SPEAK program is two weeks long, and we went for four days and we saw improvement, so I cannot imagine the improvement we would see after two weeks of working with her and other speech therapists at her clinic.

Jodi's grad student Katie, me, Kiddo checking out the medal he earned (age 3) and Jodi Kumar--July 2013

Kiddo (age 4) working with Nancy Kaufman--Oct 2014

But, when it came down to logistics and finances, seeing Jodi at GWU is much more within our budget, my in-laws can watch Little Brother while we're there since they live nearby, Hubster can still work since he works with a company in the area (plus they'll pay for our hotel since he'll be working, score!), and we can visit with family and friends in the area.

So, sadly, I turned down the Nancy Kaufman experience, though we are planning on taking him back sometime.  Maybe next summer if he's accepted again?  Maybe for another four day intensive during the school year?

But I am excited about seeing Jodi Kumar again, she is amazing, and I'm excited to see what progress Kiddo will make and what I'll learn with Kiddo having speech 3x/day for three days with her.  We will see her in July, and I can't wait to see Jodi again and show off how much improvement Kiddo has made in the two years since she last saw him when he only said about 10-20 word approximations.  :)